I'm often reminded that you don't have to spend money to have fun! (And the fun you have that is FREE is probably more meaningful, anyway.) Here's my experience of the time I went back in my tiny, rural home-town a few years ago with no memberships to bail me out of a long day with bored kids.
There were two things that came to mind as I was on my spontaneous trip to Oregon just a few years back. The first was that this was the time to use as much of my weekly budget as I can spare to start buying ahead for Christmas, for back-to-school, and even next summer.
Since I visited my teeny tiny hometown in Oregon, I was reminded that…
You don't HAVE to spend money to have fun.
No brainer, right? I've always known this, preached it, and even lived by it…or so I thought. But since going back and not even having a swimming pool in this town, let alone my aquarium membership, gym membership, children's museum membership, pool pass, fun centers, playgroups, bouncy houses, trampoline gyms, zoo, summer camps, amusement parks, and discounted movie theaters to take the kids to, I found myself getting worried. I have actually thought to myself, “What am I going to do with the kids in this town of nothing to do?”
Shame on you, Jordan! This is exactly the kind of mentality that got us into our rough financial situation in the first place.
FALSE NOTION: MONEY IS WHAT ALLOWS YOU TO HAVE FUN
Now, don't get me wrong…we've learned how to work these memberships and activities into our budget, and I always try to find a deal (of course). BUT…
When Bubba and I decided to stop getting by and start getting ahead, we buckled down. We call it “going to ‘the Ranch'” (comparing it to the show The Biggest Loser and the fact that they go to “The Biggest Loser Ranch” to give up life, work out 6-8 hours per day, and eat basically water and lettuce for months at a time in order to lose as much weight as they can, as fast as they can and kickstart the rest of their lives).
We sold our car. We stopped eating out. We stopped spending money on entertainment. We stopped shopping. We focused every dime we could on getting out of debt (which, we had $10K on just ONE credit card. ONE! And yes, we had several.) Oh and just for the record, we got out of debt in just 14 months, while making a $30K salary that year and having $0 in savings.
Did we give up lots of things? Um, you bet your bacon we did. (No, literally. We gave up bacon because it was too expensive.) Was it hard? Yes, it was DANG hard…At first.
Then an interesting thing happened. We:
- Grew closer
- Talked more
- Spent more time at home
- Got creative.
- Didn't have cable TV and lightning-fast internet to distract us anymore
- Planned cute, creative dates for each other instead of just going to dinner and a movie every weekend
- Started making gifts for each other instead of buying them…making for some INCREDIBLY thoughtful gifts
And the most surprising…
WE STARTED HAVING AN INSANE AMOUNT OF FUN.
That's right. Without spending a single dime most of the time, we started having SO. MUCH. FUN. It's amazing how much of our world was suddenly opened to us when we were forced to start taking notice!
Flash forward a few years later, we are still debt-free except for our mortgage, and we are taking a steady, solid paycheck (glory Alleluia!).
…but we started getting lazy.
Going back to Oregon, the kids and I were forced to get creative. To look for things to do that don't involve having a membership somewhere. It was such a refreshing reminder that you really don't need to spend money to have fun!
HERE ARE SOME OF THE FREE THINGS WE DID AS A FAMILY
- We drove through the local wild animal farm to see the animals being raised there (for free!).
- Played with buckets, hoses, and toys in the front yard instead of paying to go to a pool.
- We played and played and played at all the local parks.
- We took advantage of a local free arts & crafts day.
- We played at the river (and even borrowed the free life jackets provided there) and collected dozens of shells, which we plan to hot-glue to the birdhouses the kids painted.
- We went on walks.
- We had a pizza and movie party at home instead of giving in to the temptation of paying $10 per ticket to go to a movie theater.
- And we enjoyed countless good conversations, back-scratching episodes, and stories together – especially with Mimi and Grandpa.
I'm grateful for my sleepy, tiny, “boring”, rural home town and for the reminder it gives me to stop, slow down, put the wallet away, and enjoy some FUN together.
What are some free ways you have fun and create memories as a family? Let us know in the comments below!
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