Since my kids are little (almost 3 and almost 18 months) and I’m getting increasingly pregnant by the day (about 27 weeks) I dreaded the drive to say the least. I used some of my tips and tricks that I explained in THIS POST, but did some things different this time around so here’s my smushing of the old post and new post. Hope this helps some of you!
*Note: I’m using amazon pictures and links to help illustrate what I’m talking about since I didn’t take many pictures. I hope they help!
- Start in advance: Ok, so maybe I love road trips and love organizing for them. Regardless of whether you’re a nerd-bird like me or not, I implore you…DON’T wait until the last minute, even if you feel like there’s not much to do and it could easily be done the night before or day-of. Trust me, it’s never as easy as you think it is. We left Utah on Saturday, so I started organizing Monday of that week.
- Make lots of lists. Grocery lists. Packing lists. “What to clean around the house before you go”, lists. Write things down because I promise…you will forget things otherwise.
- Clean the car. Use a daily deal site or clean it out yourself. I can’t stand to travel in a crusty car so I try to do that in advance.
- Make arrangements with neighbors. Pick up our mail, watch for packages, take our garbage cans to the curb, watch for suspicious activity, water our plants (if we had any…). We delegate all of it to neighbors and are happy to do the same when they leave town.
- Clean out the fridge. I use up all I can the week of our trip and don’t do any grocery shopping (we make it do, or do without!), then I freeze anything left behind. If it can’t be frozen, I pass it off to neighbors.
- Empty garbage cans. Nothing like a stinky banana peel sitting in your garbage for 8 days to welcome you home.
- Pull the suitcases out early. I pulled out suitcases and started doing laundry on Monday. As I cleaned things we needed to pack, I put it right in the suitcases so they couldn’t be worn before the trip. By Friday night everything was packed, washed, put away, and there was no last-minute scramble to find what we needed clothes-wise.
- See more trip prep ideas HERE
Here are a few things I armed myself with for the drive:
**Note: Everything I bought to entertain the kids (like the trays, sticker sets, and my son’s electronic letter game especially) came out of their Christmas budget. Don’t go spending a lot of money unless you’re willing to have it come out of a budget somewhere!
- Activity trays
- Magnet toys
These are SO GREAT for the car, because it makes it harder to lose pieces. I got three sets of brand new magnetic games at a yard sale for $.75 each. One of them is farm animal bingo, which my son got a kick out of. My daughter loved them too! I just had to make sure to give her one with big pieces so she shouldn’t choke if she decided to taste one.
- Folder games
- Puff ball/pom-pom sorting
My genius mother gave me this idea. I bought a pack of various-sized puff balls from Walmart. I gathered some small dixie cups (see below), baby food jars (lids are a definite bonus when considering containers), a pill sorter from the dollar store, and put them in a shoe box.
The idea was for my son to sort the colors of pom poms into various jars. If I had time, I would’ve color-coded the jars with strips of construction paper or a dot of paint…but it didn’t matter because he preferred to dump out all the puffs, then put them back in the jars one by one, disregarding any form of color sorting.
My daughter loved them too. She had fun dumping them on her tray over and over. It really kept them entertained for a while!
- Necklace making
I didn’t let my daughter participate in this one, as you can imagine. However, it would be great to do with cheerios or fruit loops to avoid choking hazards, and to give them something to snack on as well.
For my daughter instead of pony beads, I bought her a pack of linking heart and star charms from the dollar store.
She had a great time playing with them, mostly putting them in her cup, dumping them out, then doing it again. She tried linking them together but she’s a bit young. She ended up dropping many, but they were super easy to find and pick up in the car once we got to AZ.
- Oversized Balls
I bought a pack of 12 hollow plastic balls from the dollar store. I wasn’t sure what I was going to do with them, but I opened the pack and gave them to the kids, and they had a good time filling cups with them, then dumping them out on their trays. This was especially great for my daughter since they were easy to grab, see, and pick up if dropped to her sides (inevitable).
- Coloring and drawing
This is a standard go-to activity in the car in my book. BUT…it can be a nightmare if you aren’t prepared. Some things I use/love in the car:
This is our son’s Christmas present from us this year. I gave it to him early so he could use it for the drive (and he doesn’t really know the difference of not getting it on Christmas anyway). It is the coolest educational toy!
My kids have really been into stickers lately, especially my daughter. I bought some sticker packs at the dollar store and on Amazon. But what I’m most nuts about (as is my son…) are the REUSABLE stickers. I bought some on Amazon and they are amazing for not only the car, but for church, waiting rooms, etc.
- Books, books, books
I went to the library with my kids mid-week and picked out a HUGE bag of books. My son got to choose books for him, I grabbed board-books for my daughter, got some books for me, and got lots of books on CD for my hubby who drove the whole way. We put his books on CD on his ipod before the drive so he could put in an ear plug to listen. It’s sometimes hard to hear the CD otherwise.
- Snacks and food
One thing I learned…you need LOTS of snacks and food for the drive. A) you don’t want to buy over-priced food at gas stations, B) it’s healthier than fast food, and C) it just plain keeps the parents awake and the kids happy.
I bought a large freezer tote for around $7 from Costco and had that on-hand, but mostly used my small refrigerated tote.
I found these tupperware containers at the dollar store and am obsessed. They were PERFECT for feeding them snacks and lunch, and also came in handy when they were playing with their crafts and beads.
- To make things as efficient and space-saving as possible in our tiny Rav4, we packed everything into 2 big suitcases that we put on top of the car. We wrapped the cases in a HUGE heavy-duty tarp (we don’t have an enclosed roof rack holder thing), tight as a burrito, and strapped the life out of them with bungee cords to the roof. It kept the rain out and left the entire back of the car for the dog.
- I kept the bin of books between my kids in a canvas cube.
- I kept their blankets on top of their books for easy reach.
- I stuffed a blanket between my daughter’s car seat and the door, so she couldn’t drop anything where I couldn’t reach back and get it. She tends to lose things in the abyss next to her seat…
- I kept a gallon ziplock baggie full of smaller baggies, condiment cups from Walmart (AKA Jello shot cups), and plastic dixie cups in the food bin. We used the cups for portioning snacks to the kids, as well as letting them use them for puff ball sorting, beads, etc.
- I kept all their toys in a collapsable mesh hamper at their feet.
- I kept all the food in a flexible, durable cooler with handles. I kept smaller snacks for the kids in a reusable shopping bag on top of the cooler for easy grabbing.
- As I mentioned before, I kept drinks in my small insulated tote next to the tub of food. I poured juice and milk into thermoses to keep cold and kept them, along with cheese and our sandwiches, in the tote as well.