When we first cracked down on budgeting, I tried everything.
I tried monthly budgets. (But getting a lump of money is hard for me to not blow through quickly.)
I tried multiple budgets. (But it was confusing and hard to track, especially if I needed one budget one month and not the next, like haircuts or vet visits.)
Tried using cash. (But it was hard to track so I would have no idea where it had all gone at the end of the month.)
Break my budget down weekly.
Have only THREE budgets that encompass all our regular spending (grocery, other, and family…more on that below).
1. Open 7 bank accounts.
2. Divide up spending responsibilities
No reason to step on each others’ toes! Divide and conquer! Sit down and write out everything you spend money on, then divide up. If you do the cooking, you should buy the groceries. If you drive the kids around usually, you should be in charge of paying school fees. If you are the one that knows about cars, you should be the one to handle oil changes and car repairs. This will keep you efficient, organized, and give you autonomy to do things your own way! See more about that HERE.
3. Divide your spending responsibilities into three budgets:
“Grocery” budget includes:
- Anything you could find at a neighborhood grocery store.
- Examples of “grocery budget” items:
“Other” budget includes:
- Money set aside for normal, regular, non-grocery expenses.
These are “want to have” items most of the time, and not “need to have” items. Once again, this does NOT include any form of bill or utility, see the next category for that. See below for more explanation.
- Examples of “other budget” items:
So where do bills, utilities, and gasoline come from? In our house, money for that comes from our family budget.
Family budget includes:
- Expected, set monthly expenses involving the family, house, and travel, as well as unexpected expenses involving the family.
- Examples of “family budget” items:
4. Decide how big those budgets should be.
Pull out your detailed statements from the last 3 months that show every dime you’ve spent (spreadsheet, credit card statement, or whatever you use to track your spending).
Decide what will be covered in YOUR “other” budget.
Total up how much you spent on “other” in the first month, then second, then third.
Average them out (add the sum of the 3 months then divide by 3).
There’s your STARTING point….
…now…cut it in half If half seems to harsh, cut it down and start there. Make it hurt a little, it’s almost guaranteed you are spending more than you should because, well, that’s human nature!
5. Track your new budgets.
So there you go!
Additional notes and tips:
- If you prefer a more “techy” approach to tracking, you’re like my husband. He would rather shave his eyelids than carry around an envelope. He uses Mint.com to track his responsibilities because it’s digital, has a fabulous free app, and connects with every loan, bank account, credit/debit card we have, and he can also set and track financial goals. I recommend doing both because Mint is more comprehensive…but it didn’t work for me in terms of keeping track of day to day spending.
If you have a long month (one with 5 weeks), you can either make the first or last week of the month longer to include the extra days, or simply divide your budget by 5 and keep all your weeks as 7-day weeks. Just do what works best for you. In our free printables we divided everything by 4 weeks to keep it uniform and simple.
Try cutting your budget down a little to begin with. You probably spend money that you don’t need to be spending on little things, that could really serve your family a lot better if you put it in your slush fund and put it toward BIG, long-term things.
Keep EVERY receipt for the month in your envelope,so if you lose track or need to return something you have everything right there.
If you bring home extra money in a month(bonus, extra commissions, extra paycheck that month, etc.) DON’T alter your budget! There is absolutely no need! Put the extra money toward debt, put it in your savings, or put it in your slush fund. Don’t go out and buy more groceries with it, that is noooooo fun. Be wise with every dollar you bring in.
Open 7 bank accounts. “Whaaaaat?! Hold the phone! Put on the breaks! Sound the alarm!…SEVEN accounts? Giiirl, yo’ mus be ca-RAY-zay!” Ok, maybe I am. But I will promise you something: by opening multiple accounts, it WILL make your life easier. Watch the video below, or click HERE to watch it online, and click HERE for all the details, how-to, why’s, and info.
Once again, click HERE to download our free printables.
Good luck with your new system!
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